老爸老妈的浪漫史第七季

这一季感觉剧情简直是飞速发展，第一集和最后一集都足够吊人胃口！

Ted太可怜了，本季详细告诉了我们他长期处于单身状态已经太渴求自己的真命天女了，处处可以看出来Ted的寂寞，Barney要结婚了，他要是整个gang里最孤单了。

但是Ted一直在以讲故事的角度讲自己如何遇见真命天女的，一定程度上很给人慰藉，不要去担心未来，神早已预备，即使你都开始怀疑自己是否要永远单身。

Barney在整季中的故事不再伤感啦，不知不觉热爱单身的Barney已经适应了相爱的生活，亚特兰大城和Marshall玩得那么疯，也总觉得这样的时间已经接近尾声了，联想自己很快的大学生活，有点害怕。

虽然这部剧是补而不是一开始就追，但是能感受到其中的时光飞逝，看看九十年代的Marshall和Lily就知道了，不禁让人联想二十年后自己是怎样的。

E2Ted: I want to be a complete head-over-heels idiot for one. *Me too.E4Robin asked her therapist in tears: why am i constantly looking for reasons not to be happy? Replied the therapist: maybe because the idea of finally being happy terrifies you.E10When you meet the right person, you know it. you can't stop thinking about them, they are your best friend, and your soulmate, you can't wait to spend the rest of your life with them, no one and nothing else can compare.If there's one thing i've learned as a therapist, it's that just because something needs to be told, doesn't always mean it needs to be heard. (Kevin i did something bad.) We've all done bad things, doesn't mean we're bad people. Look i don't care every detail from your past, and i hope you don't care about mine either. What i do care about is you and that from tonight forward, you are in this as much as i am.E13https://i.y.qq.com/v8/playsong.html?hostuin=1152921504693432134&songid=&songmid=003l6OA744Ksm1&type=0&platform=1&appsongtype=1&_wv=1&source=qq&appshare=iphone&media_mid=003l6OA744Ksm1E14...and pretending anyone who leaves you never existed in the first place.E16if it's meant to be, then it won't matter.S8E5Victoria: I really hope you get her someday.S8E23Kids, you can't cling to the past. cuz no matter how tight you hold on, it's already gone.Maybe we don't need to give meaning to every little thing, maybe we don't need the universe to tell us what we really want, maybe we already know that, deep down.S9E13it would be easy to say goodbye now that i know how much i mean to you.to be continued

他们约好每三年都约在一起看一套三部的电影每次都想象着三年以后人生会更加美好的样子Ted想着成为建筑师，有自己的标志性建筑，找到了彼此相爱的那个人马修想着成为环境保护方面的律师，留着胡子，穿着西装，和Lily继续在一起，结婚，孩子Barney一直都没什么变化，还是不断地变换着辣妹做自己的女朋友，然后门一关从此再不相见可是每一次的三年都实现了一些，可是又很悲剧的破灭了很多生活好像并没有多么大的进展每个人还是那副死样子Ted那么多年还没遇到自己孩子的妈自己曾说到我34岁时候还没定下来肯定是我自己个性有问题大家哈哈大笑然而今年的电影日，Ted发现自己真的还是没有定下来，怀疑难道真是自己的问题，也开始怀疑三年之后生活并不会变好，悲观的想象自己三年后是一个孤苦无依却依旧好为人师的样子，想象着大家都很好很快乐很幸福的生活，他就是这么惨。。。

这会是真实发生的状况么？

其实我看的时候也会思考我很喜欢himym里的各种闪回和穿越的对比这一系列让我们看到人生的轨迹所幸编剧还是个想给大家希望的人Ted在2015年有了自己的女儿，抱着女儿和大家一起看影片，Barney给小孩子剧透，O(∩_∩)O哈哈我本觉得因为这是一个喜剧系列，总不会想让我们过于悲观后来我又想到了一些上一辈人们的事情，却也觉得生活无非是细水长流，是厚积薄发，是信仰的点滴累积，然后时机一到，真的就实现了自己曾经所向往所期待的生活。

所以我觉得还是挺有可能的我想我现在真是越来越悲观的各种想法却在心底坚信着那些美好的事情像Ted那样励志的感情观那么坎坷的经历那么坚定的相信自己会遇到匹配的命中的那个人虽然这时间真的有些久人生却也往往如此我真的很喜欢friends和how i met your mother就是因为我觉得很多时候简直是人生的情景再现生活不会是像偶像剧一样那么不可思议的美好和悲伤却往往如家庭伦理剧一般狗血而琐碎也很像这两个剧一样，有各种小小的起承转合，每个人会有十分浪漫美好善良可爱的时候，也有怪异固执欠扁被鄙视各种囧的状况但我们终究还是那个自己只是不断地在成长不断在努力成为自己想成为的那个自己你想要的终究会实现只是需要你一直不要放弃要坚定然后要等待的久一点忽略那些繁琐的不美好大体还是美丽的三年后又三年再三年每一个三年自己又会怎样的变化呢

最近经常游荡在寻妈记的贴吧里看着众多吧友对于老妈的揣测.长久以来。

追剧的人们早已忽略了谁到底是老妈这个问题。

直至16集末，Ted对Robin的那句 I love u.编剧你终于让我们再次燃起了对酱油男主归属问题的讨论。

毫不忌讳的讲，自己一直是个坚定的TR党。

虽然有太多的证据来说明了ted和Robin的不合适，以及Barney和Robin的相配。

但大多数时候，爱情是需要互补的。

作为一个金牛文青男，Ted是个无可救药的浪漫主义者，他相信命运对于爱情婚姻的安排。

可更多的时候也陷入了爱情与现实的纠结之中。

渴望婚姻，有一男一女两个孩子这都是对于现实的憧憬。

不同于Uncle Barney的游戏人间，浪漫主义的Ted先后遭遇了5主角之一的Aunt Robin ,同样浪漫的victoria,狠狠伤害了自己的stella,以及同样尖锐而总是背道而驰的Zoey.包括汤骚客串的虚无飘渺的南瓜妹，每段感情都无疾而终。

如今已经第七季了，眼见软糖和小百合的孩子都要出生了。

可Ted的老婆还是没个谱。

真想向编剧吐槽，快点给孩子们找个娘吧。

第七季的开端，作为一个回归的前女友，Victoria点醒了Ted寻妻无果的原因，that is Robin.虽然在第七季之前我是怎么没有看出来Ted的心里一直有Robin.不过session7的种种迹象表明了Ted bear真是美版的大仁哥，5年来一直以朋友名义守护着自己爱的人，为了她，花费8个小时准备一屋子的惊喜只为了给她短暂的cheer up!因为一直爱她，不在乎她不能够生育，可以放弃自己一直来的愿望。

可李大仁的守候换来的是happy ending。

Ted得到的仍然是那个备胎约定。

坦白来说，Robin真的不是一个令人待见的女友。

除了Don以外，她的每任男友都需要对她妥协让步。

阿三已经是个完美的男友了，可两人仍然没有结局。

虽然这段分手来的太突兀。

所以本人大胆断定，结局应该是BR。

而session 7开头的婚礼会是barney和quin的，不过结局肯定是悲剧。

毕竟BR的感情问题还是没有解决的，Barney内心仍然爱着Robin,而R亦是如此。

、17集末ted背起行李包，踏上再次寻找真爱的路程，也表明了TR的正式结束。

不要跟我提Marshall那句NOT YET.我更将其看成对于友情的支持。

看到有位吧友这样写到，很想有位像Marshall那样的好朋友，哪怕是大早上，会二话不说赶来陪我聊心事。

当我有心事躲在厕所，他会敲敲窗送来问候，即使我不愿意讲，当我下决心放弃心中爱的那个姑娘，他仍然在心底为我留一丝希望，说NOT YET!

I think we finally need to face the fact that we eventually have a female character on TV that is created with almost zero intention of meritocracy but simply a testimonial that whoever tells you looks don’t matter is the world’s biggest liar and life is colossally easier if you’re easy on the eye. As a girl who is not particularly nice or cheerful, or talented, or in any way keen on making others happy, Robin clearly has never run out of luck in being pampered by the whole world, being the girl who is believed to be 'the one' by almost every man she runs into, the dream come true, the red balloon that no men would let go even if it means an otherwise highly fulfiled and satisfying life tainted. She comes off vulnerable, conflicted, tortured, never satisfied, as if wronged by something to an admirer's eye that is purely evil because it is simply gruesome to see someone like her not treated with all the benevolence the world has to offer. Everything she does seems reasonable, or at least tolerable. Her success is recognised and celebrated in every way it can be recognised and celebrated. Her failures are brushed off as some made-up imperfections that only make her more real and adorable. "She's never alone." "She's worth the troubles." "I would steal an whole orchestra for you." "There're no top five. There's only top one. There's only you."Because, drum-roll, she is, wait for it, hot. The human nature of being involuntarily drawn to people who are physically attactive in turns testifies just how fleeting, unreliable and trivial affection could be to one another, and therefore how ridiculous it is to waste life on pursuing such an illusion. I would like an out, right now, to a happiness built on something I can actually feel, and the privilege of feeling what could make me happy.

更至14集我觉得Ted Robbin Barney 这样的关系很别扭😓Ted 和R 明明隔了好几季都没互动小暧昧，反而B 和R 有过谈心暗中帮助的铺垫.....另一方面我觉得Nora 适合和B 走到最后的，N才是B the one, 可以做一两季，甚至可以和其他四个多些单独互动，但奈何前铺有RB 线 ，注定NB 不可能有结局...说真的目前看到第七季，真的是很多次被五人友情感动到，尤其是Marshall Lily 搬到郊区

第一集里Ted和Robin的一段小对话：Ted: I'd go to the bagel place, see a pretty girl in line. Reading my favorite novel, whistling the song that's been stuck in my head all week and I'd think, "Wow. Hey, maybe she's the one." Now I think,"I just know that bitch is gonna take the last whole-wheat everything bagel." Robin: You've just been focused on work.Ted: No, it's more than that. I've stopped believing. Not in some depressed, "I'm gonna cry during my toast"Way. No in a way I even noticed until tonight. It's just, every day, I think I believe a little less and a little less and a little less. And that...sucks.第二集结束语：Kids, you can't talk yourself into falling in love. It doesn't take days of deliberation. When it's real, you know pretty quickly, and with absolute certainty. I had forgotten that. But I was about to be reminded.第八集Ted想去和Naomi说分手的时候：....when it's just not there, you can't force it.第十集Ted看到三个人跳舞的时候：Wow, music really does bring people together.第十二集Robin和Barney刚发现怀孕的时候：Robin: I'm pregnant.Barney: ........Barney: Are you sure you're not just getting fat?。。。

Barney: pregnant? seems nobody told your boobs...第十三集关于Puzzles的小曲：Ted: Puzzles is a place when people go/ To feel like they belongBarney: Gonna take advantage of dumb drunk girlsTed: No, we're not.Barney: Bro.Ted: That would be wrong.Ted: A place where wit and wisdom bloomBarney: A place to bang chicks in Ted's roomTed: Not gonna happen.Barney: We'll talk about it.Ted & Barney: At Puzzles, we all fit togetherKevin:And I'm the bartender!Ted & Barney: ......Kevin: I'll go get the other kegs.Ted: Probably a good idea.Barney: We got to work out some harmonies.Ted: And coz when I'm up hereBarney: And I'm right here...Ted: No, you actually.............Background: At Puzzles, we all fit together\ On sunny days or stormy weather\ So pull up a chair and sit folks\ We laugh and share and stories to tell\ Puzzles is a place where everyone feels at home\Barney: And we bang chicks in Ted's room.第十四集在strip club：Ted: Barney!Barney: Wh...whatTed: I'm allowed to miss them, okay? They're my two best friends.Barney: I'm your two best friends!Ted:......第十五集Ted的旁白：Kids, someday you're gonna throw a party, and you might find yourself worrying if something's gonna go wrong. Well, don't. What you should worry about is everything going wrong. And what's really scary is how quickly that can happen.

首先，我是BR党，这季笑的多，哭的更多。

基本都和BR有关。

第一集就戳了泪点，BR之舞。

Barney收拾花瓣床。

Robin给她想象的孩子讲How I Meet Your Father!还有就是昨天看的B向Q表白，我可怜的R!如果BR不在一起的话，我就··········································（可能）弃剧！

BTW，并不讨厌Q，只是更喜欢BR.这剧完结时，我会去买把黄伞，祭奠我的HIMYM.也希望自己早点找到我的“Ted”哈哈！

不管老妈是谁，至少在我心中，老妈的不二人选是Victoria，即使不论victoria是唯一一个回归的前女友，纵观目前所有出现的女友，和Ted分享同一个价值观的，只有V，Ted是个彻头彻尾且无可救药的浪漫主义者，而和V在一起，很显然，强化了Ted的这种浪漫，比起R的，现实和极简主义，和V在一起，会让Ted更快乐，从婚礼相识，到一个无懈可击的浪漫夜晚，然后走到一起，然后V远赴德国，到最后双方在远距离的互相不信任中分手。

但分手仅仅是种状态，而这种状态无法改变，他们是何种人的事实。

R过于现实，过于入世，明显和Ted这种超然的状态不同，这就好比B信奉的是及时行乐，而Ted信奉的是，冥冥之中自由安排，而且总会遇到他生命中的那个她。

而很显然V更能读懂他，而且比起那个虚无缥缈的南瓜妹，和无疾而终的Stella，完全相反的Zoe，V也更为切合实际。

感情的基础是建立在共同兴趣的基础之上的，即所谓的共同语言，乍一听，共同语言这种东西有够陈词滥调，但你不可否认，这的确是让两个陌生人成为彼此生命中最重要的一部分的先决条件。

就好比Lily之于Mashall。

即使，Ted找到了那个孩子他妈，或者是找到了，他所想象中的孩子他妈，都不会和Victoria一样。

不过怎奈命运无常，，过客就是过客，错误的时间出现正确的人，即使她正确也是一场美丽的邂逅。

就像在厨房的最后一吻一样，与其说是R的错，不如说是命运的错，6年前的惊鸿一瞥，到6年后再续前缘，看起来，注定编剧是想让T和V变成过去的过去。

人生如戏，戏如人生，世事无常，不能每件事情都能如你所愿吧，正如你对于最恰当的人世后知后觉，当你悔不当初的时候，人家的无名指上已经有了一颗名叫"契约"的戒指。

s7 11集太催泪了 it is my job to cheer you up. you never be alone. Highway to hell, but with you. s7 16集也好感动 robin跟kevien在一起之后，真的是状态很好，很漂亮。

求婚那一刻，真的要哭出来。

因为baby over也好难过。

也许可以治愈别人的人，本身就代表了一种世俗意义上圆满的幸福。

而ted脱口而出的 i can 也好动人。

那么想要小孩的一个人，也可以接受没有小孩，因为i love you.S7E24 第一次为barney的感情触动。

之前觉得他对rola 对robin 对Quinn 的深情都来的很突然，但是看到他run away又回家看到公主房子，对Quinn脱口而出的是“thank god you are still here” 还有求婚时刻，真的好浪漫。

而奇怪的是，当完成求婚回到Marshall家，他跟robin开着玩笑说，这是我们最后的私奔机会时，我第一次感受到了barney对robin的深情。